What happened to Blued
For a decade "just download Blued" was the advice in every China guide — it was the biggest gay app in the world, home-grown and everywhere. That era ended in November 2025, when Blued and Finka (formerly Aloha) were removed from Chinese app stores amid a broader tightening of LGBTQ+ spaces online. Existing installs limped on for a while, but you can't reliably get the app inside China now, and its future is uncertain. Any guide still leading with Blued is out of date — including, frankly, most of the internet. Our dating apps overview tracks the full picture.
The stack that works in 2026
- Grindr — the workhorse, with a catch. It's blocked on Chinese networks, so it only works if your data routes outside the firewall. Two ways: a travel eSIM whose data exits through Hong Kong or Singapore (zero setup once you land), or a reputable VPN installed before you travel. Install Grindr at home too — the store listing may not be reachable inside China. Full walkthrough: Can I use Grindr in China?
- WeChat — where everything actually lives. Not a dating app, but the moment you meet anyone — in a bar, a sauna, a group chat — the follow-up is a WeChat exchange. Set it up before you fly and learn the QR-code dance; our WeChat guide explains how the scene uses it, from group chats to the semi-private Moments culture.
- Tinder and Hornet — hit-and-miss. Both are firewall-dependent like Grindr, with thinner Chinese user bases. Worth having installed; not worth planning around.
What not to do
Don't sideload Blued APKs from random mirrors — you're handing an unknown build of a location-aware app full access to your phone. Don't buy "China-ready" VPN subscriptions from sellers who message you first. And don't let the apps carry your whole trip: the post-Blued scene has swung back to venues and friend networks, which is honestly more fun. Our guide to meeting gay locals covers how connection works when the grid goes quiet.
A note on discretion
Whatever you use, keep location sharing coarse, be sceptical of profiles that push you to another platform or a specific bar (see the drink-bill scam), and never out anyone. Visibility carries more risk for locals than for you — behave accordingly.
